10 Essential Tips for a Stress-Free Wedding Photography Experience (...from an Ontario wedding photographer)

You’ve got the Pinterest boards, the dream venue, the dress (omg!!), and now it’s time to make sure your wedding photos are as iconic as the day itself. Wedding photography shouldn’t be stressful—it should feel like a natural, fun, and empowering part of your big day. Here are 10 tips to help you keep it chill and let the magic unfold in front of the camera ✨📸

1. Hire a Photographer You Vibe With

This is so important. Your photographer will be with you all day, so make sure you actually enjoy their energy. Stalk their socials, hop on a Zoom call, and trust your gut. You want someone who makes you feel comfortable and seen, not awkward or overly posed.

2. Do an Engagement Session First

Think of it as a practice run—no pressure, just fun. An engagement shoot helps you get comfy in front of the camera and build trust with your photographer. Plus, you'll get some cute pics for your invites or wedding website.

3. Build a Solid Timeline (with Buffer Time!)

Work with your planner and photographer to create a timeline that gives you space to breathe. Build in extra time for getting ready, traveling, and emotional moments (trust: someone’s gonna cry). A little wiggle room = way less stress.

4. Have a Family Photo Game Plan

Family photos can be chaos—unless you plan ahead. Make a shot list of all the important combos (parents, siblings, grandma, etc.) and assign a friend or coordinator to help round people up. Quick, easy, and done.

5. Keep Your Getting-Ready Space Tidy-ish

A cluttered room = cluttered photos. Toss suitcases, snack wrappers, and random stuff out of the frame before your photographer arrives. Natural light + a clean space = dreamy getting-ready shots.

6. Don’t Overthink Posing

You don’t have to be a model! Your photographer will guide you. The best photos come from genuine moments—laughing, snuggling, being you. Let go of perfection and have fun with it.

7. Trust the Process

Once the day starts, hand it over. You’ve done the planning—now it’s time to be present. Let your photographer do their thing while you soak up the love. You’ll get the best photos when you’re genuinely enjoying the moment.

8. Designate an “Unplugged” Ceremony

Ask guests to put their phones away during the ceremony so your pro photographer gets a clean shot of your vows—no phones blocking the aisle, no weird flashes, just pure, emotional goodness.

9. Pack a Mini Emergency Kit

Blotting paper, safety pins, a mini sewing kit, bobby pins, tissues. You'll thank yourself later—and your photographer will appreciate not needing to Photoshop out a wardrobe malfunction.

10. Eat, Hydrate, and Breathe

Yes, the photos matter—but so does your energy. Take care of yourself throughout the day. You’ll look and feel better, and it’ll show in every single photo.

Final Thoughts

Your wedding photos should feel like you—real, joyful, and full of love. With the right prep (and the right photographer...hi!!!), you can stay present, feel confident, and actually enjoy having your picture taken.

Let the camera do the work. Your job is just to show up, be in love, and live your best main character moment 💍💫